29042 Dating Site Custom work needed

Hello, This is an emergency. I upgraded my Match Agency from 6.6 to 6.7 and now all of my changed I made prior to the upgrade are now gone. I backed up my upgrades, but I do not know where to look to get them back. I will need someone to look at my backup to find my old settings or to customize my Match Agency. Below is the list of items I need now. 1. Install customised photos, banners, and colors. 2. Enlarge all fonts 3 times their existing size 3. copy the color scheme from my website [login to view URL] 4. Add a rotating (photo) banner 5. Add 2d buttons where the links are located 6. add a 2d glossy drop down toolbar where the existing verticle tool bar is located. 7. Integrate V3 chat script 8. Integrate dating quizes 9. add thumbnail generations to thumbnails and friends entries. add thumnail and skin to chat room(replace user's avatar) I have another DB called intimate vibe in the same directory on the server. I would like to re-attach a button to this DB so that members in coolvibe personals can locate and access intimate vibe. thanks