Parental Control Software for Mobile Phones

We would like to run a mobile/smartphone parental control system. Which will save outgoing emails, sms messages, call logs, etc. Sim change notifications, remote wipe system for thiefts,etc.. For a detailed explanations, we would like to get similar software as seen on following web site: <[login to view URL]> Currently we would like to run it on Nokia devices and IPhones. If possible, we would like to get a Java version as gui on mobile device is not important. And it should have a web gui for every user to keep track of their childrens activities. Please check already developed application and discuss details/questions with us.